Oga Obinna is facing a backlash online after advising men to marry ‘vienyeji’ from the rural areas and groom them themselves.
Obinna took to Instagram with the marital advise on Wednesday, saying women from the deep rural areas were perfect for marriage.
“Sai vile mambo imefika, if you want to marry inabidii uende ushago huko ndani. Si zile ushago ziko kwa market centers. Utafte kienyeji mwingine mwenye ajui social media na ajui Obinna ni nani. yani hajui nini inafanyika wapi. But ni kitu moja safi, alafu sasa unaanza kumchanua polepole. lakini ukisema unataka kuoa Nairobi ama kisumu or Mombasa,” Obinna said.
This did not sit well with a section of his followers, with some arguing that after grooming the village girl, they will eventually turn against the person who groomed them.
Others also questioned if Obinna really wanted a village girl considering that he has been eyeing Amber Ray and recently fans have been pushing him to marry Pierra Makena.
Several others did not see sense in whatever he was saying and they didn’t shy from giving him a peace of their mind.
Comedian YY also joined in the comments section, advising against the grooming that Obinna talked about.
“Hiyo kusafisha ndio mbaya zaidi…It’s not in their nature to dry where they bathe…when a woman grows and you’re still the same person whether you are doing well, they believe they have outgrown you…
“They always want higher so when they level up, they regard the ground as even…majority won’t remember who put them there. It takes a woman an extra effort against her nature to live with you after doing all that…and those women are rare,” YY said.
Obinna responded to him with another video, telling him that he had also groomed his wife Marya, as she wasn’t the same way she was when they began dating.
“So I spoke about kusafisha dem then YY aansema hiyo ni mbaya… ooh ukimsafisha atakuja akuwache sijui nini… But wait a minute, YY si umesafisha bibi yako? The way she looks now is not the same way she looked when you first introduced her to us. Why are you preaching wine and drinking water? Sisi hutaki tutafute watu tusafishe?” Obinna asked him.
YY, responding to him again, urged him to revisit his previous comment and get the exact quote of what he said.
“Read my comment again and the quote is as I said it….NOT as you interpreted it…I see you even created a tone from what I typed….Go back, read, and do a video saying exactly what I said…Then we can have this discussion,” the father of one told him off.
