Juliani’s wife Lilian Ng’ang’a has opened up about her father revealing that they shared a very close relationship, despite him having a tight schedule while she was growing up.

Speaking to Dr. Ofweneke recently, the mother of one said that her father had values and principles that she would love any man she dates to emulate.

One of the things that she can’t tolerate in a man is drunkenness. According to her, her father doesn’t drink. Whenever she finds couples heavily intoxicated she sometimes feels like slapping them because they can’t take care of each other in such a situation.

“I struggle with so much with alcohol. I don’t drink myself, I used to but I struggle with men who drink a lot because I don’t know how to be in that setup,” she said adding that alcohol spoils people.

“You can go drinking, it starts well but after a few drinks, people just transform into  different people,” she went on.

She said that she would lose respect for a man when he is heavily intoxicated, advocating for moderate drinking.

“It is okay to drink in your twenties or thirties but as life progresses  just reduce,” she said.

Another value that she would look in a men, it is that of arriving home early just like her dad did. Lilian revealed that she would get in trouble  with her dad whenever she would arrive home beyond 7pm during her school days.

“I like a man who comes home early. Times have changed, I struggle a  lot with that,” she said adding.  She however noted that she has adjusted her timings and would expect her man home by 10pm but he should communicate to her prior about being late.

“Be home early, there is another day coming, whatever you are doing  can always carry forward,” she said. She noted that she previously was with a man who was very busy but he would come home early always.

Finally, Lilian said that she would be bothered if a man is untidy and disorganised.  Her dad is neat such that they have branded him ‘Baba Safi’.

“A man who is very untidy would bother me. Have your space  but untidy would bother me. You can’t be the extreme opposite of me, it would bother me,” she insisted.

She noted that she can tell how organised a man is from their first date and she wouldn’t give him another chance if she finds him disorganised.

“I am very stubborn, I am very clear on what I want and how I want things done so it comes out as stubborn,” she said.