Esther Musila, 52, has shared her two cents about being a very happy and fulfilled woman after she got to exchange her wedding vows with a gospel singer Guardian Angel who is almost half her age.
The beautiful mother of three grown-up children took to social media to categorically state that she doesn’t need any validation from anyone whatsoever on how to lead her life since she only does what makes her happy and what makes her husband happy as well now that she’s legally married to Peter Omwaka.
Happy women are now the married ones, they’re not the career women as well, or the ones that are single, but the happy women are those who have embraced the art of loving themselves truly by choosing to leave behind their past and leave it there and start living in the present is nothing short of glee and happiness.
She also was keen to note that women usually love to play victims in relationships and urged them to stop that and instead choose to move past their anger, tears, and bitterness in life.
Above everything else, Esther Musila said that women’s happiness is a matter of personal choice and nothing else.
“The happiest women today are not the married ones. They’re not the single ones. They’re not the ones with stable careers and good incomes.
The happiest women are the ones who made a choice to love themselves wholly and truly.
Women who chose to leave the past behind worked on their self-esteem and put a high price tag on their self-esteem. They stopped playing victims.
They stopped whining in self-pity and dining in pity parties. They moved past their anger, tears, and bitterness.
They realized that happiness is a personal choice and responsibility. They chose to be defined by their present, but not their bitter pasts.
They are happy because they don’t need validation from anyone. They are happy because they know that they don’t need to throw shade on anyone for them to shine. They are happy because they chose to be Queens ?
✌✌To the ladies in the house…”
