Government should impose strict rules on co-parenting, and arrest the parent causing the drama, says Akothee.
If there is one thing that irritates Akothee the most, it is when fully grown couples drag their children into their fights.
It’s becoming a global pandemic where, when couples divorce, one will try to use the child to undermine the other’s peace, she says.
Via her Facebook page, Akoth wants parents to behave accordingly.
“It is not even the child or the upkeep that they desire; it is known as the selfish spirit of the unknown, in which you believe your partner is happy without you and you never want them to move on,” the mother of five, singer and business woman further adds.
Madam Boss advises men and women to act right and change their attitude.
“With this attitude, you will end up ruining not only your children’s lives, but also your own,” she warns.
“Because you are toxic to every new person you meet, all of your future relationships will fail because you are still holding on to your past relationships,” Akothee says.
To solve the differences, she share 11 important things necessary in a co-parenting situation.
1. Avoid unnecessary demands.
2. Take care of your children without demanding for support if you can afford it.
3. Agree on terms of visitations.
4. Tell him or Her you are not interested and not ready for any drama nor negative discussions.
5. Limit your communication and attachments to friends you commonly shared, they carry gossips.
6. Don’t stalk him or her on social media.
7. Block anyone bringing info’s from both ends.
8. Allow children access their parents ,unless its getting ugly.
9. Talk only positive things about your partner around your children or just don’t mention at all.
10. Let them find out by themselves that daddy or mommy isn’t supporting them, don’t be the transmitter you are also a parent, do your part.
11. Stop showing your children tears of weakness they see you as a HERO, don’t let baby down.
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