Xtian Dela says, “The top 7 indicators of a toxic parent will be discussed in this post.”
He starts off his article with a heart piercing introduction.
“We look to our parents for love, support, and direction while we are young. Nonetheless, some parents might have a negative emotional impact that has long-term psychological repercussions for their kids. People frequently refer to these parents as “toxic” parents.”
Madam Naomi Nyongesa spoke to bloggers saying Xtian has cut off his family since 2019.
After he started dating his girlfriend Fatma, his mother says, he has not seen him since then.
All she wants now is to confirm he’s alive asking citizens to reach out to her if they’ve seen him.
She also plans to report to police and insists that Fatma must produce where he is because she’s the only one they know.
Xtian Dela gives his seven signs that a parent is toxic in a list via his blog Tuko Sesh.
1. Constant Criticism
2. Manipulation
3. Lack of Boundaries
4. Neglect
5. Blame-Shifting
6. Gaslighting
7. Enmeshment
From his blog, it seems these are the reasons he chose to stay away from his mother and siblings.
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